Defending Yourself Against Caregiver Fatigue

Are you suffering from caregiver fatigue? If you are helping to care for a loved one, we at Village Shores, fully understand how physically, emotionally, and mentally draining that role can become.

We’d also like to reassure you that you’re far from alone. The Pew Research Center reports that more than 40 million adults in North America provide unpaid care to elderly loved ones, and many of them also have significant daily responsibilities that transcend that care. More than one in 10 U.S. parents care for children as well as adults; in addition, those multigenerational caregivers spend an average 3 hours and 17 minutes a day on other work for which they’re paid.

At Village Shores and SilverCrest Properties, we’re here to help. With over 35 years’ experience providing quality care for older adults, we’re experts in navigating the many challenges that can be part of the caregiver experience. While the role of caregiver can offer substantial rewards, it can also be demanding enough to strain the resources of even the most resilient person. And we recognize and honor the truth in the situation: If caregivers don’t take care of themselves, they’ll eventually become unable to care for anyone else.

In recognition of that, here are our suggestions for helping prevent caregiver fatigue even as you carry on with your labor of love.

Caring for the Caregiver

Ask others for help

Admitting you need assistance isn’t a weakness. Communicate your needs to your siblings, spouse, children and friends and ask them to pitch in or provide care in shifts. They may be unaware of your stress and caregiver fatigue.

Delegate other tasks

Do you need help with errands, housework, meal prep or other daily living tasks that are going undone? People in your life want to help but may not be suited to caregiving responsibilities. Making a meal or doing your laundry are perfect ways to let them take some of the load off you.

Build in relaxation time

When spending time with your loved one, take frequent breaks. After hours, make sure to allot time for activities you find enjoyable and relaxing, such as massage appointments, naps, baths, walks in nature, yoga classes, salon visits and music sessions.

Monitor your own health

Keep doctor and dentist appointments and address any concerns. Work exercise into your daily routine. Eat nourishing foods. Get enough sleep so that you wake up refreshed.

Acknowledge your own feelings

It’s OK to admit to yourself that you feel sad, angry, frustrated, resentful, overburdened or scared. Consider journaling about your thoughts and emotions, or perhaps incorporate them into prayer or meditation.

Check into family leave benefits

Your employer may offer paid or unpaid time off that can help give you more time to spend with, and care for, your loved one.

Find a support group

Talking openly to others who understand exactly what you’re going through can be an enormous relief. At SilverCrest Properties we have offered a number of support groups for caregivers. Some meetings are topic focused, dealing with issues that affect caregivers. Others offer safe spaces to share thoughts and emotions with other caregivers, or just listen and take it all in.

Consider respite care

Several organizations, like our community, can offer temporary care for your loved one when you need a break or wish to take a vacation. We provide fully furnished respite suites in which individuals are invited to stay for three to 30 days. Health support and personal support are customized to the person’s needs, meals are offered, and care attendants are on-duty 24-7.

Accept that you’re not superhuman

Admit to yourself you won’t be able to make life idyllic for your loved one. No matter how hard you try, you can’t control the decisions they make, halt the aging process or cure incurable diseases. Some days will go better than others, and on many days your best efforts will have to be enough.

Maintain your sense of humor

Remaining grave and serious all the time can be exhausting. Laughing with your loved one can break the tension when situations seem surreal or ridiculous.

Taking care of your loved one may be one of the most important and rewarding tasks you’ll ever undertake, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy in any way. If you’re a caregiver, think of Village Shores as a trusted resource when it comes to senior care.

Contact us today for more information.

By Published On: May 24, 2022Categories: Blog, News

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